About six weeks ago a dear friend of mine who lives in Dothan was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I talked to him this morning. His disease is in an early stage, and his prognosis is less dire than most, but in all likelihood he won’t live past five years. Today was his first day back at work, and he remembered a time some fifteen years ago when I went to his office to console him as his marriage had fallen apart. I remember it now…the light in the room…He remembered that day fifteen years past, and called me to talk about death and faith and hope and love.
He said he had just returned from M.D. Anderson and he said he thought that the way he was treated there, not just by the doctors, but the nurses, staff, the waiters in restaurants, the taxi drivers, store clerks, hotel employees, was the way the kingdom of God might be; and that he has returned home with hope and peace and an unbridled joy at the way he has been loved. I told him that he was seeing the kingdom already in its becoming; that in his paying attention, living prayerfully, (prayer, the art of paying attention) he is seeing the world as it really is…he is seeing the world as God knows the world to be, a world in which death is no enemy…but sacred as life is sacred….one process of a perfecting universe.
Jack Spong asserts in his new book that organized religion chiefly came about in order for us self-conscious humans to cope with the reality of death, even to escape it, and I think that is true to a certain extent. But in facing death honestly and imaginatively, whether imminent or distant, I believe we are able to see life the way it is meant to be; the way life really is…. that peace and hope and joy come inevitably, in spite of any circumstances; we see the value of community which is the means of God’s gracious commonweal bearing love that is, in truth, stronger than death….love that is, in truth, stronger than fear….the love light present in the room.
I will continue to pray for my dear friend, and I will give thanks for his faithful witness to the truth of the matter; that his days in God’s peaceable kingdom are marked by love and life and hope that vanquishes fear and despair, and that at the last he will find rest for his soul. That is a prayer for all of us is it not?…all of us mere sojourners in the profound sweet shortness of the days of heaven in earth.
